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title: "AI girlfriend app comparisons: six head-to-heads"
url: https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/
updated: 2026-10-24
publisher: The Companion Lab
license: May be quoted with attribution to https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/
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# AI girlfriend apps, side by side

Six head-to-heads, all built on the same evidence: the same six messages in the same order, our own
creator walkthroughs, the printed plan prices, and the merchant strings from our own card notices.

| App | Score | Verdict | Monthly | Free plan |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| Secrets | 8.3 | Our pick — best overall | $19.99/mo · $109.99/yr ($9.17/mo) | 20 messages a day; no monthly Moments |
| Nomi | 7.8 | Best free plan | $15.99/mo · $99.99/yr ($8.33/mo) | 2 selfies a day; daily message cap (we didn’t hit it) |
| SpicyChat | 7.5 | Best no-coin-meter paid plan | $19.95/mo (True Supporter) | No message cap in our test (46 sent); 4K memory; no chat pictures |
| Ourdream | 7.0 | Best character creator | $19.99/mo · $119.88/yr ($9.99/mo) | 55 Dreamcoins; 1 a message, 5 a picture |
| Kindroid | 6.8 | Best writer (tied with Secrets on chat) | $13.99/mo web · $15.99 in the iPhone app | Premium-model preview (14 messages); selfies paid only |
| Xotic | 5.5 | Sharpest character, pushiest shop | $24.99/mo (Ultimate) | 5 messages once; 200 XOT; one character |
| GirlfriendGPT | 5.5 | Funniest chat, most upsells | $15/mo (Premium) | Says 20 messages; we got 10; 30 starter coins |
| Candy | 4.8 | Nice creator in front of a sales funnel | $9.99 first month, then $13.99 | Chat locked after the account’s 5th message |
| DreamGF | 3.5 | Cheap photos, price doubles in month two | $12.99 first month, then $25.98 | 10 messages; 5 tokens (+15 for verifying your email) |
| EroLove | 6.7 (partial) | Best memory; Premium was given to us | $12.99/mo · $77.99/yr ($6.50/mo) · crypto only | 5 messages a day; memory included; 25 sparks at signup |

## The six comparisons

- **Kindroid AI vs Nomi AI** — Nomi wins. Nomi scores higher because its free plan never stopped us; Kindroid writes better and charges for it.
  https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/kindroid-vs-nomi-ai/

- **Ourdream AI vs Candy AI** — Ourdream wins. Ourdream takes all four areas: the better builder, a free chat that never locked, and a meter it states before spending.
  https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/ourdream-vs-candy-ai/

- **Ourdream AI vs Kindroid AI** — Ourdream wins. The closest call of the six: Ourdream by 0.2, with Kindroid winning conversation 9–7 and Ourdream winning the creator 9–7.
  https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/ourdream-vs-kindroid/

- **Ourdream AI vs Secrets AI** — Secrets wins. The creators tie at 9; Secrets wins the chat, the free plan and the price clarity, and its bank line matched its promise.
  https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/ourdream-vs-secrets-ai/

- **Secrets AI vs Kindroid AI** — Secrets wins. A tie on writing at 9/10 and a win for Secrets overall; Kindroid is $6 a month cheaper on the web.
  https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/secrets-vs-kindroid/

- **Secrets AI vs Nomi AI** — Secrets wins. Pay for Secrets, stay free on Nomi: 8.3 against 7.8, and Nomi is the cheaper app on both plans.
  https://thecompanionlab.com/compare/secrets-vs-nomi-ai/

Where we have no evidence the row says "not tested by us yet" rather than picking a winner. We have no
Kindroid or Nomi bank descriptor, and we have not walked a Kindroid cancellation.